Things can turn from good to bad in a blink. And when the animal instinct takes over, it clouds all logical, thoughtful consideration necessary for good judgement.
This is the scary moment. When we feel that regardless of how much willpower or drive or control we have, we sometimes don't. Nor can't.
Better to recover faster by affording it the time it takes. Sometimes fighting the feelings prolong the suffering.
dead ends. from that one Burbank Nights series.